Am I Meant to Stay Single? 💔💔💔
Are you single because “you can’t take another heartbreak?”
The Statistics
According to businessinsider.com, nearly 40% of American adults are single. But it was not revealed how long they had been single for.
However, the Pew Research Center analysis found that about 38% of American adults ages 25–34, were not in a relationship. It is not just people in their 20s or 30s that are single, but the Guardian newspaper reports that an increasing number of women are choosing to be alone.
Although, is it more like you’ve exhausted your dating options if you are alone rather than it being a choice? Would you be in this predicament of being a singleton if you discovered someone who values you as much as you value them and the stars aligned?
Nevertheless, in “the decade-and-a-half between 2002 and 2018, the figure above for those aged 40 to 70 rose by half a million.” The percentage of never- married will double in their 40s.”
Don’t run away from relationships
A lot of people aren’t even trying to live. They are not risking anything or putting themselves out there and trying to develop relationships for fear of rejection or wasting their time.
However, human connection is what makes life worth living. What matters most in life is the quality of your connections.
We are here to get on with the art of living. We’re here to live, to get out there and have experiences, so do not be shut off to love.
What really matters here and now is taking the risk of falling in love by merging with another person. Suffering, pain, rejection, redirection, hard work, and effort are all necessary for us to receive love and make spiritual progress on our journey.
Have you given it your all?
Yes, life is about relationships, but that does not always have to mean a romantic relationship.
Everyone on earth has their own journey. Even if you are a nun or a monk, you will still have relationships with members of your religious order. Not to forget the people the nuns are serving, “the vulnerable” and the local community. Most orders also have a few volunteers.
So, even though these religious sects choose to be celibate, they still have a full social life and keep important relationships with other people.
If you fear remaining single, don’t assume you’ll always be disinterested in finding someone suitable.
Once you meet the one, your disdain and concerns will go away.
Try your best when it comes to trying to form a love partnership, but do not force anything. You do not want to settle.
If you fear remaining single, don’t assume you’ll always be disinterested in finding someone suitable.
Why?
You are not in the right headspace. Once you meet the “one“, your disdain and concerns about dating will go away.
It’s Lonely at the Top
Astrology says that if you have more than three planets in the 10th house, such as the Sun, Moon, Venus, or Jupiter, your career will be more important than romance and family, unless your 5th or 4th house is strong.
The 10th house is the highest point in the chart. The higher up the career ladder you go, the fewer people you can truly trust. Being alone might be a symptom of carrying too much weight.
Similarly, squares and T-squares to the personal planets like the Sun, Moon, Mars, and interpersonal planet Saturn in an area of marriage or romance highlight prolonged heartbreaks.
An empty 5th and 7th house does not mean you will be single forever. You are likely to have transits to the areas of love (5th) and marriage (7th) at some point, and you’ll have a lot of other opportunities for love then.
Transiting Uranus or Pluto conjunct a personal natal planet (Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus, and Mars) in the 5th or 7th can highlight letting go of a romantic chapter of life or having to change how you are in partnerships.
Saturn transiting the 5th indicates delays and restrictions. Dating can be difficult when potential suitors are few and far between, or you’ll lack interest in dating. Alternatively, you’ll think that this is your last chance to find someone.
If there were no planets or no harmonious aspects to the 5th in your chart, you could make a serious commitment. Furthermore, if you’re older or more mature, a 5th house Saturn is better for love, etc.
Zodiac Signs
Like sun in the 10th or a those with bunch of planets in the 10th, Capricorns can delay marriage more than any other sign, of course there are a few exceptions.
Aries is not short of interests but can struggle to join another person because of of not wanting to give up their sense of identity and agency.
Sagittarius love of freedom and adventure can mean their relationships tend not to last. Like Aries or maybe even more a Sagittarian will have many lovers but they are on a journey of self-discovery.
Aquarians will stay single if society deems it to be popular to be in a partnership. But if people identify an Aquarian as a spinster or something, they will settle down in no time at all.
Pisces’ love of solitude is real, but being a sign of duality, like Gemini’s need to merge with another. A Pisces can have bouts of being alone and feeling like they will never find a partner, but when they do find someone compatible and they merge, they become stronger.
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