He has NEVER introduced me to his friends or family 🤔😤🙃😳🚩 

It is suspicious when a man fails to bring you to see his friends and family, particularly when you have been on more than a few dates, like you’ve been dating for more than four-six weeks.

However, he may need longer to introduce you to his family; four to eight months is acceptable.

But even when you are introduced to his family, that doesn’t mean everything is hunky, Dory.

My Friends Story:

I had a friend in college who dated a guy that I used to attend school with, but he went on to attend the same college as both my friend and I.

From what I remember of him at school, he was a Casanova. All the girls were smitten with him, except for me (well, that’s how it felt).

I never got the appeal, nor did I see his allure.

Nevertheless, my close friend at college ended up “dating” him. She would visit his home (to have sex) and would meet his mother, who would bring them breakfast in bed.

As a result, my girlfriend thought that everything between them was kosher.

She felt that they were exclusive because she had been to his home and was acquainted with his mother.

After a few weeks of sleeping together (although she knew him for one year through college), she decided to introduce him to her other best friend, and that’s when he flipped OUT.

My female friend couldn’t understand what the harm was.

What had she done wrong?

Because I knew him beforehand, it was apparent to me. I knew he bought all the girls around his house and introduced them to his mother; girls meeting his mother wasn’t a problem for him, and maybe his mother liked the fact that her son was open.

Moreover, his maternal side of the family came from a different cultural background (Argentina), making his behavior more acceptable for him to have many lovers.

Nevertheless, he got so angry because, as already mentioned, he was a serial cheater. Moreover, because my friend had introduced him to another female-her best friend, it became a conflict of interest.

The introduction of another girl was potentially ruining his chances of perhaps one day sleeping with this woman.

To top it off, to him, the relationship he was having was just sex. He introduced his mother not because my friend was special to him, but because he still lived at his family home.

The introduction was purely circumstantial.

Significant red flags

However, it is a more significant red flag if you do not meet both his friends and family and he is receptive to meeting your friends and family.

If you’re hidden and out of sight, you’ll likely just friends with benefits. You’re not his, or his friends’, or his family’s ideal woman. But, if this is a same sex relationship maybe the person isn’t out yet.

Alternatively, he has not yet moved on from his past. Thus, is not ready to be in another relationship or have someone else.

Either way, this man is only ready for a casual partnership. As a result, you have to figure out if you are okay with that or not. Don’t project what might happen if you stay with him longer; understand that he may never change his mind.