How to Spot a Libra Man

The Difference Between Libra Man and Gemini Man

How to spot a Libra man?

You could say that a Libran man is a polished version of a Gemini man.

Actually, I would say a more elevated version.

The first and most noticeable difference between the two is their appearance. A giveaway clue is how they are dressed. The Libran man will be sharper in his attire. Libran men may dress in feminine shades or flimsy fabrics. Remember that their planet is ruled by Venus, the planet associated with females.

As a result, this man can seem slightly flamboyant. Although he will always balance his need for eccentricity or femininity perfectly.

If your Libran man isn’t stylish, it may be because he has a planet such as Uranus conjunct his ascendant. Alternatively, Uranus is in the first house. Or he has a hard aspect to a planet in the first or close to his ascendant. 

Needless to say, most Libran men will spend lot’s of money on their appearance. And lots of money on their partners.

Flattery is the Highest form of Intimidation

In relationships, they can initially declare their feelings almost instantly, and sometimes this is to the detriment of the other person. A Libran may mislead a person by seeming more interested in them than what they actually are.

This is a sign that may be interested in the other person’s image before anything else.

They will start to flatter their lovers. Open up by describing what is going on in their minds. Well the other person thinks that the Libra man is opening up to them. Telling them how he feels. Telling them that he is attracted to them, and so on. 

However, the issue here is that their thoughts, feelings and perceptions may just be temporary.

Thus, why Libra men may be perceived as a Gemini. Libran men will again differ in the fact that they seem more determined and well thought out, and because their image and intellect match what they are saying, it’s easier to believe them. 

The Charmer

Therefore, when a Libran is pursuing a committed relationship, people are more inclined to believe him because he seems so articulate. What he is saying sounds as if he has thought everything through, so surely he knows what he wants!

However, we must remember that the Libra man, like Taurus, is all about persuasion. 

He wants to make other people think exactly how he thinks. So yes, this is going to be a man that has been blessed in the skills of communication. You may not initially be attracted to this man, perhaps he’s too young, perhaps you think his too argumentative.

Whatever may be the reason for having second thoughts it will be hard to resist his charms!

He will say just the right things to make people think he is charming, and as I explained in the intro it’s his appearance and his good looks, or intelligence, that have everyone swooning.

Anyway, before his lovers even begin to deliberate whether to date this man or not, they will succumb to that twinkle in his eye, that beautiful smile, or the way he is dressed will sway people that he is the right choice for them.

Rather Indecisive

Although the other party may have decided to stay, the Libran man will become sceptical of his decision to enter into a relationship. This scepticism is, of course, after he has wooed a partner and made the other person feel secure, making them feel as if they are number one.

At this point, this is where the air sign comes out again!

He’s now changed his mind and, like all the air signs aside from Aquarians, he will keep his lover close to him as he is still deciding what he truly wants. 

Do not be surprised when it is discovered that he has already lined up someone else to start dating before his other relationship has ended. Although he likes to tell the truth, in his mind he has not lied because he is still trying to make up his mind about which person he likes or loves more. 

The major issue with him is that he contradicts himself. He’ll say he wants XYZ and turn around and go for the thing he says he detests. Another thing is that he is judgemental and he watches and assesses every move a partner makes, so anyone dating him should beware of your behaviour!

The Pros

If you meet a nice Libran, he will adore the one he is with, and he will show his admiration by buying beautiful gifts and paying compliments throughout the relationship. There will be periods where he will occasionally wind his lover up just to test the way their minds work.

If you want to have a successful relationship make sure you set up all the arrangements, be truthful, have shared interests. Be sexy but look classy. Ask intelligent questions and make him feel like he is the best thing that ever happened to you.