I really like you BUT….🙄

There’s always one flawed characteristic, or situation, which will be the clincher, the deal-breaker, the deciding factor preventing the relationship from moving forward.

It’s torturous when you’ve been drooling over a guy that isn’t as besotted with you as you were made to believe.

It’s even worse when you’ve invested what seems like an eternity-stalking his frigging star sign, pretending to be interested in his shitty music, putting up with his Neanderthal friends, not to be rewarded with the title of his girlfriend or fiancé.

Well, screw him, you might say!

But I think if the relationship (if you want to call it that) never got past the dating or shagging phase, then you should thank your lucky stars, especially if you loathed his friends.

I know you’re probably finding it hard to comprehend why he doesn’t want things to progress to the next level, but just except us women are a different breed, aren’t we?

We’re such loyal folk who have figured out what we want sooner than you guys.

Although men can date other men, it is not to women’s detriment that we hang on to guys who are less deserving. Most women are taught from an early age to be nurturing and, as a result, do not receive the same level of care in return.

But most men have an “I don’t want to settle mentality,” knowing that there are a billion and one girls or guys out there for them to explore. And that’s what they do-go on the prow looking for what they consider to be an upgraded version of you.

Of course, there is only one of you, even if you are a twin.

Why is a man not interested based on his sun sign?

• An Aries man can become turned off if you are bossy or if you judge him. Boredom will arise if you have to plan absolutely everything. Similarly, if you are not a fit or active person, like someone who is lazy, then goodbye. Furthermore, not being good at timekeeping is another reason he is turned off.

• A Taurus man can become turned off if you are stupid and stand for nothing. He is likely to commit, but in his own time. If you are inflexible, forget it because he finds it difficult to compromise. If you always want to do something new, are highly changeable, and are in a rush, it will scare him off. If you want him to surprise you or like to surprise him, it’s a big no-no. But disloyalty is your fastest way to never hear from him again, as well as a lack of physical touch and intimacy.

• A Gemini man can become turned off if you are inflexible or clingy. Geminis’ can be fickle in love. This man might already have someone waiting in the wings. He hates structure, especially if his partner doesn’t thrill him. Trying to get him to back down from his point of view is difficult, so don’t think you know better.

• A Cancer man can become turned off if you are not grateful for all that cancer does. Criticism is another turn-off because they are very sensitive. Although they are smothering, you can’t smother them. God forbid you mention their mother in a negative tone or even get too close too soon. Cancer is very psychic, yet their imagination can run wild. Thus, if you play mind games, mess with their emotions, try to make them believe something that is not true, you can get the F out of the partnership.

• A Leo man can become turned off if you try and do reverse psychology on him. Ignoring him will piss him off too. Leo needs a lot of attention, but they also need time to rest, so you must learn to balance the two. Another turn-off is if you have the same personality as they do—have more of a character. If their friends don’t like you, you’ll probably be having “the talk.”

• A Virgo man can become turned off if you are critical or set impossibly high standards. Doing anything that makes him not feel confident is a big no-no. Or he can’t date someone who has too many negative thoughts. Since Virgo is ruled by Mercury, the planetary ruler of the mind, he detests someone lacking understanding and knowledge. Thus, if you appear to be out of touch with reality, he might think you will derail him from his plans, or he won’t know how to serve you best.

• A Libra man can become turned off if you are lazy. Libras are pretty productive and attract people who like the finer things in life. But he also wants a partner that either has money of their own or can budget their finances. A Libra man hates it when his lover cannot maintain appearances. He’ll despise you, disregard you, and ignore your demands. Such actions as just mentioned might suggest to him that you will fail to care for his children. And not only might you be a neglectful mother, but also a useless partner. Libra does not want to do all of the work; instead, it prefers that responsibilities be shared equally.

• A Scorpio man can become turned off if you try and misuse or abuse knowledge and power in moments of privacy. He’s scared that you will reveal his secrets. He hates lying and cheating, thinking it will never stop. Shallowness and an overly obvious personality are not attractive to a Scorpio because they will want to dive deep. He must use his detective skills to figure you out, but he will lose interest if you are too uninteresting.

• Sagittarius man can become turned off if you are pessimistic; remember, Sagittarius is closely tied with optimism. If you keep saying the opposite things, it can wear him down; it can make him feel like his own thoughts, his own belief system, are not valued. Similarly, it will annoy him if you have no sense of direction and are uninspiring. Like most men, but slightly more, a Sag man needs someone confident, allowing him time to himself without being jealous.

• A Capricorn man can become turned off if you are not straightforward because he does not like drawing things out. Capricorn, like everyone, hates time-wasters, and unlike everyone else, their patients are limited. He is likely to commit, but on his watch. If you come between his work, ambitions, or musical taste, expect to hear “I like you but…”

• An Aquarius man can become turned off if you live in the past. Forget it if you are unwilling to experience new ideas or concepts or are open to meeting new people. Aquarius is a sign that wants the next and latest thing; they like to experiment. Basically, you need to fit into his world. Therefore, if you are too predictable and lose faith in the Aquarian Most often, an Aquarius will end up with someone that doesn’t even like them.

• A Pisces man can become turned off if he does not know where you stand, like if you are still dating other people. Pisces doesn’t like questioning a mate’s actions; he just wants peace. He needs someone interesting. In turn, it’s a must if he has a mate that trusts the Piscean. You must also be just as kind as a Pisces; if not, things will wear thin. Lastly, he’s into someone that is busy, busy, busy all the time. Rushing around here and there and everywhere, not having time for the partnership leads to a Pisces man bailing out.