Aquarius Man

How to spot an Aquarius man?

It can be quite a challenge to know if you have encountered an Aquarius man just by looking at him. However, he’ll be busy, in between jobs, and always in a rush.

An Aquarius man will carry all the latest gadgets ( music or imagery/photography-related). He is bound to have at least three phones on hand. If you still fail to spot him, he’ll be hanging out with a younger, eclectic crowd (even if he’s over 40). If he’s in his twenties, you’ll find him at political rallies.

That is, if he comes into school at all, his knowledge of each subject will astonish you. Well, it’s not that surprising. He has a book collection bigger than the British Library.

Dating and the Friendship Zone

Aquarius is not the most romantic sign of the zodiac. Aquarius men have dated many people (of different colors, ethnicity, shapes, etc.). They have become slightly numb to the romance of it all.

Although, they have the most capacity to love because they love at a level most of us cannot fathom.

Thus, if he has not already fallen in love at first sight (common for Aquarians), he’ll want to keep things loose and make sure that you are “friends.” Aquarians have a thing about establishing friendships with almost everyone they meet. So, if you’re attracted to him, make sure he doesn’t put you in the ‘friend zone.

If he does, it’s unlikely he will ever remove you from that group. The best way for a person to get themselves out of the friend zone is to make him mad, confuse him, and make him regret the day he ever thought of them as “only” a friend.

This may sound odd, but Aquarian men are attracted to dramatic and very annoying people.

Attraction

Aquarius men can quickly become attracted to people who take center stage, the types of people who stand out at a party.

As long as you’re not the kind of actor to “cry on cue,” he will remain interested. However, the types of people he may also be attracted to will include musicians, actors, activists, or anyone who cares about the social situations of others.

One of the reasons he enjoys people who want to be in the limelight is because they are sociable people (even if it’s only an act).

Social concerns are at the heart of this sign. So, anyone he hangs out with and who gets a lot of attention halves his need to network. 

He loves a mystery, including figuring out why someone isn’t attracted to him. Anyone romantically engaged in this sign must remain detached from their feelings and try not to predict the Aquarians’ next action.

How to know if an Aquarius man is interested?

It can be hard to tell if an Aquarius man is genuinely interested in having something beyond merely a friendship.

He may not initially give off any signs that he wants to be exclusive. When he decides, he will abruptly tell the person in an argument, text message, or friend in a way that seems impersonal.

This method of expressing his feelings and commitment can be irritating, as can his passion for socializing and’social groups.

How can you ever get close if he is always involved in social/group activities?

If someone wishes to be with this man, they should expect their social circle to expand or take them away from their “usual crowd”.

Why does he require more space?

Like Sagittarius men, Aquarians need lots of space away from other people because they are always with other people. Aquarians often flee to another country, go to other regions of their native country, or end a relationship to be alone.

Their partners shouldn’t worry, though, as he’ll return before sunset. He needs his independence and will do or say anything to escape. Nevertheless, when he’s in a relationship, he can be extremely loyal and will support his lover’s lifestyle.

He will be original when buying gifts or treating you to a special night out. If you don’t like where he takes you or what he’s purchased, tough! ‘

Almost all Aquarian men and women rarely budge from fixed ideas and plans.

However, by contrast, he will change them of his own accord.

How to Deal with an Aquarius Man

If you’re genuinely interested in him, you will have to be a master of reverse psychology. The trick is to get him worked up, allow for some tension, and say what needs to be said.

He will, of course, disagree; at that point, he will say, “Fine, do what you want! Disregard my feelings; I don’t care if you make a fool of yourself or me, “and then walk away.

Reverse psychology works best when you tell him you don’t want to do something. He’ll attempt everything to change your mind.

However, do be careful of reverse psychology because this man is a genius. He’s always thinking ahead, continuously trying to solve something. When you’re trying to trick him, he’ll already know; there is nothing he doesn’t know or hasn’t seen nor heard.

However, start as friends and quickly remove yourself from his social circle, and beware of other “friends” who may wish to replace you as his lover!